Deconstruction Coaching

Navigate your changing faith in a healthy, peaceful way that works FOR YOU.

Deconstruction is a deeply personal and emotional experience and no one else can tell you where it should lead or how you should do it. Find your own way forward that leads to peace, acceptance, and purpose with a companion and guide through deconstruction coaching.

Being an adult SUCKS!

I graduated college and quickly realized no one had prepared me for real life.

I knew the mitochondria was the powerhouse of the cell, but I didn’t know:

  • How to make any friends
  • How to deal with my jerk boss
  • How to be married without fighting all the time

I hired a life coach and it changed EVERYTHING for me! Now, I’m a life coach helping hundreds of young adults learn how to deal in the real world, and kick ass doing it!

Book a free 30-minute consultation with me today.


Deconstruction is a hot topic these days.

It seems like everyone in Christian circles is talking about it.

But actually going through it can be terrifying, infuriating, or just plain exhausting.

I started “deconstructing” my faith over 10 years ago. As someone who grew up in church and was a leader in, or employed by churches since I was 14, deconstruction hit me like a wrecking ball.

But over the years, and through many difficult seasons, I have come to a place where I welcome changes in my beliefs, big or small, with grace, patience, and a peace that can’t be touched by evangelicals or exvangelicals alike. I even wrote one of Relevant Magazine’s most shared articles about it called “The Age of Deconstruction and the Future of the Church.”

I’m a Certified Life coach, and THIS is my greatest calling in life:

helping those that feel alone, scared, angry, and don’t know where to turn for help.

If you are interested in a guide for the journey and a companion for the road ahead, fill out the form to the right, or contact me below and we can see where you are in your faith and discuss some helpful ways to get where you want to be.


Kurtis is the like the spiritual Mr. Rogers for the craft beer crowd

– Pam, Healthcare Worker

Kurtis is so kind, accepting, and real!! If I could give more than 5 stars, I would! He is seriously one of the best mentors, friends, and life coaches anyone could ask for. 🙌

– Elaina, Youth Leader

Kurtis brings a posture of openness, a gift for listening, a genuine care, and an ability to help clients untangle areas of thought/life.

Alex, Former Minister

Kurtis is a wise voice, a great listener, & offers a new, fresh perspective on things. He is dedicated to cultivating a presence where they can grow & learn gracefully.

Lauren, Foster Care Director

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