Deconstruction Coaching

Navigate your changing faith in a healthy, peaceful way that works FOR YOU.

Deconstruction is a deeply personal and emotional experience and no one else can tell you where it should lead or how you should do it. Find your own way forward that leads to peace, acceptance, and purpose with a companion and guide through deconstruction coaching.

Being an adult SUCKS!

I graduated college and quickly realized no one had prepared me for real life.

I knew the mitochondria was the powerhouse of the cell, but I didn’t know:

  • How to make any friends
  • How to deal with my jerk boss
  • How to be married without fighting all the time

I hired a life coach and it changed EVERYTHING for me! Now, I’m a life coach helping hundreds of young adults learn how to deal in the real world, and kick ass doing it!

Book a free 30-minute consultation with me today.

Book a Free Consultation today

Deconstruction is a hot topic these days.

It seems like everyone in Christian circles is talking about it.

But actually going through it can be terrifying, infuriating, or just plain exhausting.

I started “deconstructing” my faith over 10 years ago. As someone who grew up in church and was a leader in, or employed by churches since I was 14, deconstruction hit me like a wrecking ball.

But over the years, and through many difficult seasons, I have come to a place where I welcome changes in my beliefs, big or small, with grace, patience, and a peace that can’t be touched by evangelicals or exvangelicals alike. I even wrote one of Relevant Magazine’s most shared articles about it called “The Age of Deconstruction and the Future of the Church.”

I’m a Certified Life coach, and THIS is my greatest calling in life:

helping those that feel alone, scared, angry, and don’t know where to turn for help.

If you are interested in a guide for the journey and a companion for the road ahead, fill out the form to the right, or contact me below and we can see where you are in your faith and discuss some helpful ways to get where you want to be.

Book your free consultation

Kurtis is the like the spiritual Mr. Rogers for the craft beer crowd

– Pam, Healthcare Worker

Kurtis is so kind, accepting, and real!! If I could give more than 5 stars, I would! He is seriously one of the best mentors, friends, and life coaches anyone could ask for. 🙌

– Elaina, Youth Leader

Kurtis brings a posture of openness, a gift for listening, a genuine care, and an ability to help clients untangle areas of thought/life.

– Alex, Former Minister

Kurtis is a wise voice, a great listener, & offers a new, fresh perspective on things. He is dedicated to cultivating a presence where they can grow & learn gracefully.

– Lauren, Foster Care Director

Kurtis brings a posture of openness, a gift for listening, a genuine care, and an ability to help clients untangle areas of thought/life.
Alex Whitaker
Alex Whitaker
2021-10-01
Kurtis is one of the few people to have ever made me feel completely seen and understood. He is wise beyond his years, authentic, and passionate. These are just a few of the things that make him an incredible life coach. He is someone you want on your team and someone you need to help walk you through life. I highly recommend reaching out to him and considering him as your life coach!
Ariana Oglesby
Ariana Oglesby
2021-08-02
Kurtis is a great listener, passionate and caring towards the people he encounters. He listens to what the client wants and embraces new ideas.
Macy Waltz
Macy Waltz
2021-07-30
Kurtis is a wise voice, a great listener and offers a new and fresh perspective to whatever is going on. He is dedicated to letting others grow and cultivating a presence where they can grow and learn gracefully.
Lauren Hughs
Lauren Hughs
2021-07-30
Kurtis has a wealth of experience, especially at a relatively young age. He is able to relate to younger people in a way that helps guide them through the difficulties that life can sometimes throw at them. I have found him to be incredibly honest, trustworthy, and relatable. He is not afraid to say what needs to be said, even if it may be hard to hear. In the complicated world in which we live, most of us (all of us?) could use a consistent voice to help us navigate. Kurtis is one of those voices. I would highly recommend him as a life coach!
Dave Drake
Dave Drake
2021-07-29
Kurtis is very professional and offers practical tools to help navigate difficult questions and seasons of life. Kurtis communicates understanding and compassion. I definitely recommend reaching out to him if you’re looking for a life coach.
Rachael Montgomery
Rachael Montgomery
2021-07-29
Kurtis is so kind, accepting, and real!! If I could give more than 5 stars, I would! He is seriously one of the best mentors, friends, and life coaches anyone could ask for. 🙌
Elaina Thomas
Elaina Thomas
2021-07-29
Kurtis has been great for us. He has coached our young people as well as our adult leaders from 18-60 years old. He connects so well with anyone (even those that are difficult for other to connect with) and does a great job helping them make their own choices to grow and mature. Couldn’t recommend him more.
Ragamuffin Students
Ragamuffin Students
2021-07-29
Kurtis is so amazing and is wise beyond his years.I have so many good experiences with him and his advice is helpful and applicable.
george buchanan
george buchanan
2021-07-29
Kurtis Vanderpool just gets people. He understands their struggles and provides helpful and useful skills that can be applied in almost any situation. He genuinely cares about those he helps and has such a heart for people. He has helped me through a lot and has been a guiding hand in who I am today. To this day, I can talk to Kurtis about anything. Anyone looking life coach/mentor should strongly consider Kurtis Vanderpool. It is a decision you won't regret.
Luke Blackmon
Luke Blackmon
2021-07-29

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