Deconstruction Coaching

Navigate your changing faith in a healthy, peaceful way that works FOR YOU.

Deconstruction is a deeply personal and emotional experience and no one else can tell you where it should lead or how you should do it. Find your own way forward that leads to peace, acceptance, and purpose with a companion and guide through deconstruction coaching.

Being an adult SUCKS!

I graduated college and quickly realized no one had prepared me for real life.

I knew the mitochondria was the powerhouse of the cell, but I didn’t know:

How to make any friends
How to deal with my jerk boss
How to be married without fighting all the time

I hired a life coach and it changed EVERYTHING for me! Now, I’m a life coach helping hundreds of young adults learn how to deal in the real world, and kick ass doing it!

Book a free 30-minute consultation with me today.

Book a Free Consultation today

Deconstruction is a hot topic these days.

It seems like everyone in Christian circles is talking about it.

But actually going through it can be terrifying, infuriating, or just plain exhausting.

I started “deconstructing” my faith over 10 years ago. As someone who grew up in church and was a leader in, or employed by churches since I was 14, deconstruction hit me like a wrecking ball.

But over the years, and through many difficult seasons, I have come to a place where I welcome changes in my beliefs, big or small, with grace, patience, and a peace that can’t be touched by evangelicals or exvangelicals alike. I even wrote one of Relevant Magazine’s most shared articles about it called “The Age of Deconstruction and the Future of the Church.”

I’m a Certified Life coach, and THIS is my greatest calling in life:

helping those that feel alone, scared, angry, and don’t know where to turn for help.

If you are interested in a guide for the journey and a companion for the road ahead, fill out the form to the right, or contact me below and we can see where you are in your faith and discuss some helpful ways to get where you want to be.

Book your free consultation

Kurtis is the like the spiritual Mr. Rogers for the craft beer crowd

– Pam, Healthcare Worker

Kurtis is so kind, accepting, and real!! If I could give more than 5 stars, I would! He is seriously one of the best mentors, friends, and life coaches anyone could ask for. 🙌

– Elaina, Youth Leader

Kurtis brings a posture of openness, a gift for listening, a genuine care, and an ability to help clients untangle areas of thought/life.

– Alex, Former Minister

Kurtis is a wise voice, a great listener, & offers a new, fresh perspective on things. He is dedicated to cultivating a presence where they can grow & learn gracefully.

– Lauren, Foster Care Director

    
 
 
        
   Jakub Novák 
 2024-02-02
 
 
  I had the pleasure of meeting Kurtis during my exchange semester at Texas Tech, where I tried a life coaching for the first time. To put it simply, it was an incredible experience. Kurtis is a true professional with a ton of experience, and he illustrates his points with great examples. He takes the time to deeply understand the issues  and can ask really thoughtful questions.
Over the past six months, his coaching sessions have been a life changing experience. Together with Kurits I tackled challenges I faced for a long time, and we've not only identified the root causes but also found solutions. I'm also continuing to work with him even after left Tech.
I strongly recommend!!
  
 
       
   James Johnson 
 2022-12-05
 
 
  Great life coach, helped me a lot with anxiety and how to handle it. Very easy to talk to and a friendly guy through and through. I recommend Kurtis to anyone going through anxiety issues.
  
 
       
   Jack Carrico 
 2022-12-05
 
 
  He is very patient with me and gives reassurance to my strengths and challenges the validity of my improper statements. He is also super kind and wise and knows a lot of ways to help you work through your issues and choices while being most helpful.
  
 
       
   Maureen Alvarado 
 2022-07-07
 
 
  As my son was approaching his Senior year in HS and feeling self doubt and anxiety about what’s to come next, I was looking for help to direct him to being confident and the best version of himself. I am so thankful we found Kurtis. I could see the growth in his self esteem every week and the confidence he exudes when meeting new people. So excited for his future. If you’re like me and want to give yourself or your child every opportunity to grow, I can’t recommend enough to reaching out to Kurtis for his help and wisdom.
  
 
       
   Brian Gillispie 
 2022-06-12
 
 
  Life is difficult, but having someone in your corner to help you navigate and talk through things is vital to a happy life. Kurtis is that person for me. You won’t be disappointed when you have conversations with him. I promise it is worth it!
  
 
       
   Alex Whitaker 
 2021-10-01
 
 
  Kurtis brings a posture of openness, a gift for listening, a genuine care, and an ability to help clients untangle areas of thought/life.
  
 
       
   Ariana Oglesby 
 2021-08-02
 
 
  Kurtis is one of the few people to have ever made me feel completely seen and understood. He is wise beyond his years, authentic, and passionate. These are just a few of the things that make him an incredible life coach. He is someone you want on your team and someone you need to help walk you through life. I highly recommend reaching out to him and considering him as your life coach!
  
 
       
   Macy Waltz 
 2021-07-30
 
 
  Kurtis is a great listener, passionate and caring towards the people he encounters. He listens to what the client wants and embraces new ideas.
  
 
       
   Lauren Hughs 
 2021-07-30
 
 
  Kurtis is a wise voice, a great listener and offers a new and fresh perspective to whatever is going on. He is dedicated to letting others grow and cultivating a presence where they can grow and learn gracefully.
  
 
       
   Dave Drake 
 2021-07-29
 
 
  Kurtis has a wealth of experience, especially at a relatively young age. He is able to relate to younger people in a way that helps guide them through the difficulties that life can sometimes throw at them. I have found him to be incredibly honest, trustworthy, and relatable. He is not afraid to say what needs to be said, even if it may be hard to hear. In the complicated world in which we live, most of us (all of us?) could use a consistent voice to help us navigate. Kurtis is one of those voices. I would highly recommend him as a life coach!

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Articles on Christian Deconstruction

Deconstruction Coach – The Powerful New Life Coaching for Deconstructing Christians

by Kurtis Vanderpool | Jan 7, 2022 | Blog, Christian Deconstruction, Life Coach, Life Coaching, Spiritual Life Coaching

I wanted to share an article that I was interviewed and quoted in about deconstruction and deconstruction coaching. You can find that article at The New Republic here if you would like to read it, but I wanted to share a little about why I am a deconstruction coach....

Lost in Christianity

by Kurtis Vanderpool | Dec 29, 2021 | Christian Deconstruction, Journal Entries

I don't know where I am these days. Church is repulsive to me, as is most rhetoric of western Christianity. I feel completely lost in Christianity . Yet, there is still a presence within me. It is what keeps me sane. What makes me happy, confident, and...